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Turning Boring Dates Into Memorable Dates

Having Memorable Dating Experiences

Whether your dating experiences are going to progress to being serious or not, whether love will blossom from it or whether you are even dating more than one person, there is always the desire for all dates to be memorable. There are various ways to make this happen. Give special attention to the location of the date, plan an activity that is enjoyable for both of you, and deliberately set a mood that you and your date are in.

Getting some romantic sparks to fly on a dinner date, will likely lead to a simple connection such as holding hands. This slight touching between you and your date is often a signal of romance becking to flare on a date. Romance can happen through a glance and even a slight touch. Long term touching or other longer physical connection causes a heat and warmth that you and your date feel can then it passes between you and become shared, giving life to the chemistry or connection and magic that exists when you are in each other’s presence.

One of the most common dating activities is the dinner. Dining often creates a memorable dating experiences. Part of the reason for that is because you and your date can have a say in going to a restaurant with wonderful d├ęcor and lighting, good food and good service. All those factors must be present for the mood to be right and for the environment to feel magically romantic for you and your date.

The perfect ambience could begin with some subdued lighting, like votive candles. Ambiance can make even bad food taste better. These combinations combined with just the right background music will put you and your date at ease and if you both are in the right frame of mind, you will feel that magic of romance.

The ultimate objective is to build a connection from the resulting romantic feeling from holding hands on a date. This can also occur while you are watching a movie and even during a non-activity such as watching a beautiful sunset.

At the theatre, the subject matter, scenes and dialog of the movie can be powerful in evoking the reality of romance between two movie-goers. What happens then is that more than just being entertaining, the movie actually makes the dating couple feel as if they are transplanted into the scene and whatever is being experienced on the screen is also happening to them, or, could actually occur.

Going on a walk together for a date can also cause romantic sparks. Maybe it’s the relaxing nature of the walk, or again, maybe it could be the always beautiful aspect of nature and being surrounded by it, that enhances the presence of romance on such a date. And if the walk involves a beautiful sunset, that also will evoke a very strong feeling of romance.

Any of these dating experiences can also be made more memorable if you and your date share a first, such as have a first kiss. You could also share a first experience such as telling each other something very special, or confiding in each other by revealing some very personal information.

Memorable milestones are made through firsts in your dating and will maintain a sense of fondness both of you will also cherish. Whenever firsts are done during dating, they represent small steps in the growth and development of the relationship. So they are also small triumphs to celebrate the fact that your dating experience is progressing on a positive path and that you and your date are having a good time.

Sometimes what you and your date can hope for and will even plan for a romantic date, may in deed happen coincidentally and sometimes when you least expect it. That’s why it’s important that when you are together, you maintain a positive and upbeat mood so that if the magic or romance should be in the air, you both will be ready and receptive to it, and will have a memorable dating experience.